IT’S UGLY OUT THERE
“The world is made for people who aren’t cursed with self-awareness.” –Annie Savoy, philosopher
“Most incompetent people do not know that they are. One reason [is] that the ignorant also tend to be blissfully self-assured.” –Erica Goode, New York Times (after interview with Dr. David Dunning, professor of psychology. Cornell University)
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As a cursed self-aware person myself, I can very much relate to the above quotes. Some might say I’m self-aware to a fault.
I witness a world being browbeaten by those who are NOT self-aware, who are “blissfully self-assured,” and whose ‘my way or the highway’ attitude is a moral dead end which does not justify the means. I see an America becoming increasing dominated by a mean-spirited egomaniac named Trump, his Pied Piper cult, and his mindless MAGA (Make America Greedy Again) anarchists. I fear the place humanity is headed ….and humane is not its name. Life is unfair and dirty enough as it is without being awash in hogwash.
Some of us may be guilty of being self-aware to a fault, but aren’t the NOT self-aware guilty of far worse? To the former, that may be stating the obvious, and to the latter, may be like talking to a brick wall. So, why bother? Well, maybe I have nothing better to do. Or maybe, by some miracle, I can connect with some poor soul looking for less bs and darkness, and more sunlight and facing-the-music. I am just idealistic enough to hope that these passing thoughts may strike a chord and clean a spot on someone’s mirror. Nothing ventured (values-wise), nothing ingrained, I always say (well, once in a Blue Moon).
But enough about meanies. It’s time for a song.
….or two..
masercot 10:27 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
“The unexamined life is not worth living” – Plato
“But, I’ll give it a shot anyway” – Donald Trump
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mistermuse 11:35 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Well observed and on the money, my friend.. “I could stand in the middle of Fifth Avenue and shoot somebody and wouldn’t lose any voters.” –Donald Trump, 2016
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Lisa R. Palmer 11:05 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Love this!
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mistermuse 11:40 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Thanks, Lisa. I kinda like it too, if I do say so myself-aware self. 😀
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willedare 11:23 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
I agree. The quotation from the psychologist (“Most incompetent people do not know that they are. One reason [is] that the ignorant also tend to be blissfully self-assured.”) is fascinating… and somewhat horrifying. There are definitely a lot of people who have made a lot of money these days (often by lobbying successfully to have laws changed so that they have fewer feedback loops in the form of regulations and taxes) who are quite confident that they know what needs to be done. And there are also a surprising number of people (who are not obscenely wealthy) who none-the-less identify with the super-rich and their ideas (even when many of those ideas would impact their own lives in very negative ways…) Very mysterious. Thank you for some Bing Crosby to start my day! I also like the “New Sun In The Sky” song from THE BANDWAGON. Deep breath in. Deep breath out.
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mistermuse 12:04 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
I too have wondered about your point regarding the not-wealthy who identify with the super-rich, even though the latter’s mindsets are against the former’s own self-interest (at least, financially).
As for the last six words of your comment, I thank you with some more Bing Crosby:
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Catherine Haustein 11:35 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Here in Iowa, we have people without degrees or experience in education making decisions about the schools.
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mistermuse 12:25 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
….but those people have degrees in extremist right-wing ideology, which qualifies them to impose their beliefs on everyone. Thanks, Catherine, for that example of the “my way or the highway” attitude mentioned in my post.
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Ashley 11:39 am on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Welcome back MrM hoping you & your better half are on the mend. You certainly “strike a chord” with you sentiments here, so now I’m looking for someone who will clean & shine a spot on my mirror! 🙋♂️
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mistermuse 12:42 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Thank you, Ashley. As for your mirror, I don’t think you need worry about that very small spot. After all,
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magickmermaid 12:48 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
The ‘extreme right’ is clearly wrong! I hope Mrs Muse is feeling better!
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mistermuse 12:53 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
You’re right, mm!
As for the Mrs., sorry to say it looks like she’s going to remain in the nursing home for some time.
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magickmermaid 1:21 pm on March 24, 2024 Permalink |
I’m so sorry. Sending more healing energy.
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Rosaliene Bacchus 3:43 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
As a self-aware person myself, I release a long sigh at the state of affairs. We have lost our way. My best wishes to you and your beloved ❤
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mistermuse 5:31 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Thank you, Rosaliene. Much appreciated.
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Lynette d'Arty-Cross 4:07 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Up here we are watching Humpty Trumpty with apprehension. I am dismayed by the extreme right-wing crap that seems to be popping up everywhere (not just U.S.) like that whack-a-mole game. Gays for Trump? Down through history and no matter what you are or where you’re from, there’s no accountability for stupid.
I see from comments above that Ms Muse is still not feeling well. I hope that situation improves soon.
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mistermuse 5:43 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
My next door neighbor’s favorite saying is “You can’t fix stupid.” Maybe so, but I think willful ignorance is much more concerning (assuming there’s a difference between the two).
Thanks for you solicitude about my wife. Her condition is not improving, but hope springs eternal.
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obbverse 5:17 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
It is no fun, the world having somehow managed to miss the worst of Don’s scatterbrained/gun ‘shoot from the lip’ four years, to see a further four years of knee-jerk easily triggered mayhem being voted in by the none-so-blind MAGA mob. America, from strong democracy to loony dictatorship in eight crazy years is a dis(stink) possibility. Rant over. It must be a fraught time for you on a few levels, so all the best.
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mistermuse 5:58 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Rant noted and approved!
Yes, it’s a fraught time for me on several levels, which is why I’ve been unable to keep up with my blogging friends, including yourself. I wish I could say things are getting back to normal, but they’re not, and until I find a new normal, all I can do is hang in there.
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Ricardo 6:47 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
“And what rough beast, its hour come round at last,
Slouches towards Bethlehem to be born?”
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mistermuse 11:35 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
I had to look that one up, Ricardo, to find it in THE SECOND COMING, by Wm. Butler Yeats. In our time, he could have written it with Trump in mind, slunking toward his destiny. to be born and born again the Savior of America.
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annieasksyou 7:08 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
So sorry to hear about your wife, mm. Was this also due to covid? Wishing you both an upturn and her return home.
I truly believe the national tide is turning–for the better. I have a quick post today featuring Illinois Gov Pritzker’s appeal to our better angels.
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mistermuse 10:51 pm on March 23, 2024 Permalink |
Love Gov. Pritzker’s “appeal to our better angels.” If I’d known about it before I published this post, I probably would have found a spot for it. What a pity that there aren’t more politicians of his caliber.
P.S. Yes, my wife had Covid too, and actually got over before me….but her health otherwise is poor, and it doesn’t look like she’s coming home anytime soon, if ever. Thanks for your good wishes.
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annieasksyou 11:15 am on March 24, 2024 Permalink
You and your wife certainly have my continuing good wishes. Take good care of yourself at this most difficult time. Kind regards, Annie
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rawgod 5:05 am on March 24, 2024 Permalink |
Two pertinent lines from a poem I wrote in my 20s. It is apt to self awareness:
Is thus a CUSED blessing, or
Is this a blessed curse?
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mistermuse 11:28 am on March 24, 2024 Permalink |
To be blessed with a curse seems an oxymoron, but I’ve been wrong before. If I am — CURSES! Foiled again!
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rawgod 2:21 pm on March 24, 2024 Permalink
The original poem, which I have lost track of, was about seeing beauty in everyone. It was written after a conversation I had had with a woman who broke up with me because I treated someone she hated with respect. She looked for the worst in everyone, I found out that day. and she decided it was bad to see beauty in everyone. One of the strangest conversations I ever had.
My take now is she was probably protecting herself from the world, probably had been a used by someone she loved. Wherever she is now, I hope she learned how to see bauty.
That dsy in particular, getting dropped by someone I thought I could love, I was shattered.
Is it wrong to look for beauty?
Self-awareness is on a similar plane. Not everyone had it. And I run into more people that don’t than do in real life. Sometimes I just get lonely for someone sane to talk to. Which is why I now spend so much time on line. Here I have friends. In real life, very few
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mistermuse 8:31 pm on March 24, 2024 Permalink
You can talk to me anytime, Rawgod (even if you’re looking for someone who is sane — ha!).
Kidding aside, I can relate to the kind of deep thinker you are, just as I find it hard to relate to shallow, materialistic thinkers. As for “Is it wrong to look for beauty?” — no more so than it is wrong to see ugly, IMHO. Both are simply reality, and denying it serves no purpose but to leave one half-blind.
And with that, I’ll stop before I go off the deep end. .
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selizabryangmailcom 2:44 pm on March 27, 2024 Permalink |
I’ve never seen that quote before, about who this world was made for. It’s SO on target. Everything makes sense when you think of it that way. Like: “ignorance is bliss.” It IS bliss. But what kind of existence would that be?
Also as said above, what continues to amaze me is Trump’s sea of followers, unaware or, worse, uncaring that if he was alone with them in a room, he’d kick them all out and bad mouth them after they left. They mean absolutely nothing to him. But he’s found a super strong foundation on which to continue constructing a building made entirely out of malevolent cunning completely detached from morality or even sanity in many cases.
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mistermuse 4:22 pm on March 27, 2024 Permalink |
My thoughts exactly, my friend….and expressed so well that you’ve saved me the trouble of adding my two cents worth (which is more than Trump is worth, when all is said and dumb). .
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selizabryangmailcom 3:40 pm on March 28, 2024 Permalink |
My pleasure. On such an unpleasurable topic. 🙂
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josephurban 9:26 pm on March 28, 2024 Permalink |
It’s called the Dunning-Kruger Effect.
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mistermuse 9:54 pm on March 28, 2024 Permalink |
Thanks, Joseph.
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Mr. Ohh's Sideways View 10:51 pm on March 29, 2024 Permalink |
This was great🤣😎🙃
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mistermuse 8:39 am on March 30, 2024 Permalink |
Thank you!
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